PRETENCE, one of the destroyers of marriage most especially in my country Nigeria.
Singles or Intending couples are seen pretending to be what they’re not in a relationship after marriage, they turn out to be someoneelse entirely.
When you were in a relationship, the good act was enacted, after the wedding another act was activated which was quite different from what was seen during your relationship.
I wonder what went wrong?🤷 Was it not the same person who was kind, faithful, caring, loving, truthful, secret free, gentle, friendly during courtship…how come such person became their partner’s worst nightmare.. What happened? What changed? Who got disconnected? Who was pretending all along?
These questions and more are what’s going on in the mind of a married Nigerian, in a twinkle of an eye, divorce, emotional trauma, domestic violence sets in….when one person drifts away or stopped the pretence….
My question is what happened to the love both parties shared before they tied the knot?
What went wrong? Who was truthful and who was pretending?
Feel free to drop your answers…….
DONMW 