CHANGE

Like I wrote earlier in the previous post, getting married entails a lot, much is expected from you most especially as a woman in my country…. You are expected to change from your spinsterhood life to activating a marriagehood like kind of life, you are expected to drop all the things that made you the woman you were before you got married… It is only your husband that who is meant to continue to live his bachelor’s life before he married you.

You must not dress like you are single, you must not look like you are single, you are not allowed to flirt or be seen with another man, be it talking ,gisting, having sexual conversations etc. You must answer only to your husband. He has every right on you but you do not have any right to question him. That is the CHANGE that happens to most women if not all.

When you get to the next stage.. having children, then you become you worst fear because at such time you would completely forget about yourself, who you were before you got married, you might even get stucked at some point or drop your goals and careers to attend to the needs of your family. Your children will seek your utmost attention while their Daddy would want you to be there for him at all times, by the time you’re half way through answering them, your home calls for your attention and then you’d realize that time has gone… you have not accomplished anything for yourself.

You begin to ask yourself…How did I go wrong? where do I start from? what did I do the wrong way? There and then you’d realize… You have CHANGED so much that you forgot totally about yourself.CHANGE IS ALWAYS CONSTANT, CHOOSE TO MAKE THE CHANGE YOUR WAY CONSTANTLY………

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