Life after marriage is not the same as being single; you need to be prepared so you don’t get caught off guard, you must summon courage amidst the troubles ahead in your marriage. You need to be rooted and grounded in The Spiritual.
A lot of couples especially ladies do not have spiritual sensitivity to get things in the deep before it manifest in the physical. As a woman, you need to stand your ground in the spiritual, being able to get things faster before reality sets in is very important. It’s never about slaying or rocking the ring on your finger, it’s about being able to hold your home together with your husband’s support. The Bible says “One can chase a thousand, but two can chase ten thousand”… that’s in multiples.
My single ladies, “Do not envy your married friends”. I repeat “Do not envy your married friends”. They make look happy on the outside but on the inside she has battles she is dealing or fighting in her marriage. Listen to them or ask them about their life after marriage, it would seem like you just opened the book of Chronicles on them. We all have a story to tell.
I know being single for too long is not a good sign but sometimes you need to just relax and enjoy it while it last not forgetting your future but sometimes it’s very therapeutic. It is very important for your state of mind but do not abuse such opportunity though because it can lead to something you might later regret. Just enjoy yourself in the little way you can and God help you through the rest.
Marriage has its own weight; you just have to make sure you are equipped enough to allow Christ carry the weight for you.
DONMW 